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You said
I feel stressed at work
Inside you, right now
Rejection registers in the same regions as physical pain.
The feeling
A sense of demand exceeding resources, or worth feeling tied to output.
The body signal
Shoulders up. Jaw tight. Breath in the upper chest.
Possible chemistry
Sustained cortisol and adrenaline; dopamine chasing the next ticked box.
Nervous system mode
Sympathetic dominant; rest brake under-used.
The urge
Push harder, skip lunch, answer one more email.
The trap
Skipping the small reset. The 3 minutes you don't take cost you the next 3 hours of clarity.
The next move
Break the chain for 3 minutes — stand up, step away from the screen, drink water.
Pick one — small is fine
How does it sit in your body now?
What next?
This chemistry mix often becomes more recognisable over time. Your patterns are beginning to form.
A mirror, not a diagnosis. If you feel unsafe, please reach out for real-world help.